now i know damn well my grandmother didn’t just shame me over preferring pads over tampons when she doesn’t even have her period anymore. like how is it any of your business what i use? piss off.
I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. Shaming over what period products someone prefers to use has never made any sense to me. It’s already a miserable time of the month, why make it more stressful by shaming somebody for the products they use?? People have different comfort levels and different bodies!! Ugh.
I struggle a lot with taking pills as well. I always have to crush them so you aren’t alone. For the gel ones are you able to pierce them with a pin or knife and then squeeze out the stuff to mix it in with something else? I’m pretty sure I did something like that before.
That could apply to more than one topic here.Its hard when you try to debate about a topic with other people and then all of a sudden you just get attacked because they feel you are just "complaining" or just being so "negative" about that certain subject. Thats what I've been dealing with lately in real life and online.
I really hate how some people are telling me how to think and how to force myself to agree with them. I decide what is the right thing to say and if they has a problem with that, thats their business. Of course we live in this day in age where people think opinions are facts. It sucks but, it is what it is.
That, or you're a (insert topic)-phobic just because you have a perspective or disagree with some kid zoomer. Like okay sorry we actually can read up on stuff and don't sit on tumblr all day lol.Its hard when you try to debate about a topic with other people and then all of a sudden you just get attacked because they feel you are just "complaining" or just being so "negative" about that certain subject. Thats what I've been dealing with lately in real life and online.
I really hate how some people are telling me how to think and how to force myself to agree with them. I decide what is the right thing to say and if they has a problem with that, thats their business. Of course we live in this day in age where people think opinions are facts. It sucks but, it is what it is.
Despite what your grandmother said to you don't feel shame in preferring pads over tampons, you have to use what makes you feel the most comfortable during that time of the month. I've used pads for over 15 years simply because I prefer how quickly they are to use rather than fussing around with tampons, anyone who thinks I should use the latter can jog on.now i know damn well my grandmother didn’t just shame me over preferring pads over tampons when she doesn’t even have her period anymore. like how is it any of your business what i use? piss off.
Really? Are you going to make assumptions based on how I feel? You don't know what I struggle with and you trying to act like I have a problem isn't helping. I already have enough things going on in my life and I don't need unsolicited advice from people who think they know what the solution, but they cannot help me when they don't understand. If you wish to discuss this privately I am open to do this.That, or you're a (insert topic)-phobic just because you have a perspective or disagree with some kid zoomer. Like okay sorry we actually can read up on stuff and don't sit on tumblr all day lol.
Also just because it is what it is doesn't mean we have to agree or abide by them though.
I am just saying how it feels. Nobody really understands what I go through and they try to make assumptions. I really dislike that so much and that is the thing that really bothers me.That could apply to more than one topic here.
I was merely agreeing to your post, those people are annoying. I was just adding what bothers me as well cause I more often come across people that think you are something-phobic because you don't have the same opinions as them, but okay your pick.Really? Are you going to make assumptions based on how I feel? You don't know what I struggle with and you trying to act like I have a problem isn't helping. I already have enough things going on in my life and I don't need unsolicited advice from people who think they know what the solution, but they cannot help me when they don't understand. If you wish to discuss this privately I am open to do this.