What's Bothering You?

Might be tmi but menstrual cramps and just overall a really irregular cycle recently. I probably have to go on high-estrogen birth control again, which really sucks cause it will most likely be a long term medication this time. Honestly I'm just sick of all the health problems I've had recently.
 
I read some pretty scathing reviews of a place I'm interviewing with, so that's not exactly something that's giving me much hope for the future. I'd like to think I won't have those problems, but it'll be quite the journey to see how it really is. I think it could be worth the experience, though. I was never really planning on staying there for more than a few years to be honest.
 
i bought a warming body balm thinking that sounded relaxing and i genuinely feel like my skin is blistering, it's actually quite impressive how hot it is
 
Anxiously awaiting the canadian election results, even though they won't be posted until late tonight
I've got a baadddd feeling conservative will win this time
 
Anxiously awaiting the canadian election results, even though they won't be posted until late tonight
I've got a baadddd feeling conservative will win this time

Same. Genuinely so nervous that will happen despite Alberta and Ontario being the poster child for why not to elect conservative leaders.

I’m. So. Sore. 😭😭 I was helping out at a job today and I moved more today than I have in like a year lmao been a couch potato this whole pandemic and I’m so sore 😭😭
 
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my grandmother passed away this morning. it was likely a stroke. i... have no idea how to respond to this.
I'm so sorry, xara. 😓 This must be a difficult tiem for you and your family. know you posted earlier about struggling with school, too, so please don't hesitate to reach out if you want to chat about anything. 💜

Anxiously awaiting the canadian election results, even though they won't be posted until late tonight
I've got a baadddd feeling conservative will win this time
Same, I think I'll face the music tomorrow morning. 😬
Gosh, I wish I was more comfortable with dealing with conflict and/or confrontation head-on.

A part of me regrets bringing up the situation (casual sexist comment that a male coworker made in small talk conversation; it wasn't even directed at me) with my skip-level manager, but I felt like I owed it to my current and potential future female coworkers to inform him about it.

I work with that teammate quite frequently, too, so I know he's a nice dude. Ahhhhh...

ETA: at the time my coworker made the comment, I did immediately call him out on it.
 
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I'm so sorry, xara. 😓 This must be a difficult tiem for you and your family. know you posted earlier about struggling with school, too, so please don't hesitate to reach out if you want to chat about anything. 💜

thank you so much, i really appreciate you taking the time to respond. 💜

and good on you for bringing up that comment to your manager. conflict definitely sucks, but even if he is a nice guy, sexist comments aren’t cool, so i’m proud of you for calling him out on it. i’m sure that felt pretty uncomfortable to do. ^^
 
Oh no, xara. That must hit you really hard to hear the news on top of some things that you already have to deal with. I want to give you a comforting hug if I could to make you feel better. I honestly don't know what else to say but feel free to talk to any one of us if you're feeling down. If you need to take some time away from the forums, that's fine too. Stay strong, xara. 💙
 
I had a scare with my phone right now. it was stuck on this screen and wouldn’t let me do anything or shut it off
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My phone kept going off charge and on charge and this message keeps coming on each time, but it never got stuck on it like this. my phone finally restarted somehow on its own. it still is doing that; i got a new base to the charge and phone cord to charge and it still is doing it so it is definitely my phone. Tomorrow I’ll be going to get a new one. I really don’t want to since they cost so much and I don’t like leaving the house (but i want it right away).

Feeling self conscious about my art. I want to draw people/characters better - and just draw better in general. I can’t help but doubt that I’ll get there. I am having a lot of fun still and actually am not they unhappy right now about my art; just having a moment of doubt.

My mood is a bit crappy though. Still worried about the cats and bothered by other things.
 
Oh no, xara. That must hit you really hard to hear the news on top of some things that you already have to deal with. I want to give you a comforting hug if I could to make you feel better. I honestly don't know what else to say but feel free to talk to any one of us if you're feeling down. If you need to take some time away from the forums, that's fine too. Stay strong, xara. 💙

thank you so much. i appreciate you taking the time to respond. 💜
 
This freakin BlackHawk company AAAAAAA

I've had to call them 3 times just to send an email to fix my issue with my card that has clearly been scammed. This whole situation feels more and more scammy cause I have to keep sending info they already got! I don't have a credit card so its not like I can use that online but after this I'm applying for one.

Edit: checked the Twitter and the only comments they have (which is like 1 comment for every 5 posts) talks about the crappy customer service and how they never resolve the issue. Shoulda checked sooner ig.

Also my parents are being a pain in the *** with not helping me with this whole credit card situation. Idfk what I'm doing and it looks like there's only one card I can apply for, but they won't help me with it cause 'now isn't the time'. Wtf not? You're at home not doing anythin, why do I have to wait for who knows when one of them can yell at me while I do the application process?

Some days I just really strongly dislike my parents.
 
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Sick of all the naysayers saying that apartments under 1K don’t exist or laughing when I say that I’m looking for a small studio apartment under $700. I’m not making millions a year and I would never get approved for something over $700. I’ll only be making about $13 to $15 an hour and yes I’ll be working full time, but that’s not going to get me approved for an apartment that’s $1K.
I’ve found cheaper apartments on a website but of course someone had to jump in and say “those prices or wrong” and “they fluctuate and you have to call to get the exact price.” I know for a damn fact that there are people making less than that $13-$15 an hour and they got apartments. Like I’m sorry, but I’m not having this strict criteria that make it impossible to find something affordable. I don’t need “a mansion 3 bedrooms in a really nice area with everything in walking distance even though I have a car” 🙄 like maybe some people aren’t as picky as you. My dad lives in a real nice neighborhood paying $770 for a one bedroom so I know that’s not true that “apartments under 1K don’t exist.”
Sorry for my rant but I hate my current city.
 
My client is getting their house bombed for cockroaches tomorrow and they insist that they can leave all of their food out on their table. Even the bug guy told them to put it in their car, but they won’t because it interferes with them going to karaoke later. I can not understand it because the last time I couldn’t even step into their house without feeling sick let alone eat food that was present while it’s being done. Bombing is very toxic and unhealthy. I’m a little concerned that they’re going to hurt themselves. I’m just glad that they no longer have pets.
 
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