What's Bothering You?

i have two weeks of exams starting tomorrow and i CANNOT focus on anything for long enough for it to be productive </3 i feel like i've revised nothing lmao, these need to hurry up and be over
 
The problem is that whenever I give constructive criticism on the game no matter what I say and how hard I try my best to be honest and not negative I will still get misunderstood as if I'm some type of negative person or just someone spreading negativity. This was always my main issue when discussing what can be improved on the game and then I have certain people attacking me because they think I'm "hating" on the game when I'm not.

I am not here to start any arguments but I just want to clear this whole confusion thing up. I got attacked by some people who kept assuming that I only post "negative" things about the game when in reality I've spoken about good things about the game and not just negative. Sure there are times I was hard on the game but I am not one of those people who is like "I hate this game so much" I am not like that at all. Many people on this site don't seem to understand the difference between having an actual valid opinion and then having to be attacked by others who simply don't agree with you. Its a hurtful feeling.

Everytime I make a thread I always get hated on, then people take what I say out of context and try to make it seem like I'm the one who is being rude when really I am not. I am not here to spread negativity or trying to hate on others, but when I have to put up with users who attack me just because I have different opinion, it hurts me.
 
Morning nausea.

Also keep thinking about an idea for a novel I've sat on for about a year and a half. I just don't know if there's any point in going through the effort of writing it when I feel my idea is entirely too weird and out-there to be appreciated by anyone.

I don't really have anyone in my life I could run the idea by either...​
 
SoraFan23 said:
The problem is that whenever I give constructive criticism on the game no matter what I say and how hard I try my best to be honest and not negative I will still get misunderstood as if I'm some type of negative person or just someone spreading negativity. This was always my main issue when discussing what can be improved on the game and then I have certain people attacking me because they think I'm "hating" on the game when I'm not.

I am not here to start any arguments but I just want to clear this whole confusion thing up. I got attacked by some people who kept assuming that I only post "negative" things about the game when in reality I've spoken about good things about the game and not just negative. Sure there are times I was hard on the game but I am not one of those people who is like "I hate this game so much" I am not like that at all. Many people on this site don't seem to understand the difference between having an actual valid opinion and then having to be attacked by others who simply don't agree with you. Its a hurtful feeling.

Everytime I make a thread I always get hated on, then people take what I say out of context and try to make it seem like I'm the one who is being rude when really I am not. I am not here to spread negativity or trying to hate on others, but when I have to put up with users who attack me just because I have different opinion, it hurts me.
Click to expand...
sometimes people might associate you with negativity and so they can only see negativity in your posts. it's not because you're a bad person at all, or that you're constsntly negative, that's just how they've come to view you. it's a type of bias. it's best to ignore people like that.
ofc you do have to be careful to not be overly negative but yeah if people are accusing of being negative nonstop when that isn't true then they can just gtfo.


I have a test in my German class tomorrow and I can't focus on studying/reviewing at all lol rip
 
syub said:
my mom says i don’t clean enough around the house yet when i try to help her clean she says i do everything wrong and i should just go back to my room ???? literally what
Click to expand...
wow that sound exactly like my mom. Seriously she always tends to make me do small things for her and she cannot do it herself. So annoying!
 
Just constantly bothered by the lack of concern that people are having for the pandemic these days. Every day, I'm seeing less and less people doing what they should be doing. I know more people have shots now. But, plenty of people still don't. I just hate it. Really peeves me. And it isn't just singular people...it's also establishments that should know better.

A few weeks ago, at Easter, my grandmother was mocking masks for no reason...and this week she's upset because a friend of hers is dying from covid. It's just...eh...you can't make it up. Do the darn thing. Just do it. It's not hard. It's one of the easiest things that anyone has ever had to do to stay alive. We aren't talking about crawling through the mud in sub-zero temperatures. Wear the masks. You aren't "cool" or "free" if you choose not to. You are foolish.
 
syub said:
my mom says i don’t clean enough around the house yet when i try to help her clean she says i do everything wrong and i should just go back to my room ???? literally what
Click to expand...
me but it's my dad instead. except he literally does nothing so he honestly has no room to complain at all lol.
 
This spring weather keeps giving me hives on my body, super annoying cause I can't help but itch them but that just makes the hives worse.
 
Whyyy are my legs so sore 😭 Sometimes they just hurt and I have no idea why. It's happened since I was little but when I was little the doctors said it was growing pains
I am 22 now and I stopped growing at like 15 (I only made it to 5'5 😔)
These stupid pains can stop now 😭

I don't drink alcohol. I don't have any issue with people who do, it's just something that I'm not personally interested in. For the most part people are understanding of it (sometimes coworkers will comment about it) but my dad is always so weird about it?? I have no idea why he wants me to start drinking alcohol so badly but he does. When I turned 19 (legal drinking age in my province) he bought me some drinks even though I told him I didn't want them and kept insisting they'd be great. That I wouldn't be able to taste the alcohol and I should just try it. I didn't for the longest time and when I eventually did it was gross lmao.

Ever since then he'll still bring it up sometimes. Wanting to get me some other type of alcoholic drink or wine or something even though I always tell him I don't want it. I went downstairs to get something and mentioned my legs were sore and he started joking about how I should go have some of his rye because that would help and then again we somehow ended up on the topic of him "needing to get me some wine next time he was at the liquor store" like. No?? No you don't need to and I won't drink it if you do. I don't know why he can't just accept and respect that I don't want to drink. They're just little comments but he's always so pushy about it and it bothers me.
 
Last edited:
I'm one of the those people who aren't "popular" but have lots of friends at my high school. Sadly one of them got bullied. By a teacher. Two in fact. It happened since last year, when my 9th grade math teacher asked him if he was Asian(he said yes and he doesn't really look Asian that's why she asked). Well, he had a bad grade in math class, and she was yelling at him so loud when I was getting my math book I needed for homework into my locker. Most of it was pretty vulgar, but one thing she said was and I quote: "WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?" "ASIANS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE SMART"! In the end, I talked to him after math and I just felt so bad because I couldn't do anything because I didn't want to get in trouble. Sadly it continued all year. To the point on Friday, during ela, (my ela teacher is very strict and gives us the most homework) he said he wanted to commit suicide. I just felt so bad I unmuted, and yelled at the ela teacher for not taking care of someone who is in a crisis because he's Asian. I didn’t get in trouble and everyone else joined in with me. Iyang, if you're reading this, please don't kill yourself, as I would probably also kill myself if you die because you mean so much to me.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

Chronos314_XD
Do You Enjoy the Holidays?
2
Replies
26
Views
383
Cirice
Cirice
Suguri
How do you maintain a schedule?
Replies
11
Views
211
Corrie
Corrie
Chronos314_XD
Web Series Thread
Replies
6
Views
334
axaniao
axaniao
Alolan_Apples
Worst Fanfiction you ever read?
Replies
17
Views
398
QueenCobra
QueenCobra
Airysuit
  • Poll
What kind of breakfast do you eat?
2 3 4
Replies
65
Views
681
Bob Zombie
Bob Zombie
Back
Top